As I said in my previous comment, I would definitely recommend looking for sex-positive groups in your area. Since you’re in a smaller area, I would suggest:
- Looking in nearby bigger cities you might be able to get to once in a while to connect
- Looking at localized (could be city, ward, burrough, township, province) groups on Facebook specific to sex-positivitiy, LGBTQ relationships etc
- Connecting with people through Reddit
- Connecting with people through dating websites and apps
- Checking out Fetlife and connecting through groups there
