It seems like you’re making the assumption that I have somehow written this entire piece without actually being involved in the kink community. I have been involved in the community for years and was leadership at my local sex positive center for several years. I have been on Fetlife for years as well.

I wrote this article from how CNC is commonly used in the area where I live. Surely as such an obviously experienced kinkster you are aware that different things can vary from place to place or conversation to conversation? I realize that it may be a blanket term for other things as well but I have just as commonly heard those types of situations referred to as 24/7 power exchange, or simply as blanket consent.

It’s true I am only talking about one type of non-consent play here. That’s on purpose. This piece was inspired by a couple of other pieces I read from women talking about having rape fantasies.