Slut shaming isn’t cool, bro. Did you ever consider the idea that women are not here to be attractive to you. That’s not the only photo of me without a lot of clothes on. It’s a candid shot from a retreat I was at, and I wasn’t trying to be sexual in it for various reasons. I’ve also had boudoir photos done twice, and taken lots of “sexually aggressive” selfies. It’s only dehumanizing if YOU choose to dehumanize women. I find embracing my sexuality to be a way to embrace my humanity.

The idea that women should be “nice” instead of being forward is gross and misogynistic. You’re making assumptions about me vs other people when you don’t actually know anything about me. I’m a sex positive, polyamorous, kinky woman. I believe in sexual empowerment and expression, and if I want to shake my ass or put my tits in a push up bra all over the internet, I’m doing it for me — not for you.

Why is it offensive to talk about strangers health? Because you’re making assumptions. Not everyone fat is unhealthy. Period.

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