This is it exactly. Men want women who will fuck them, and do it well, but not fuck any other men. I suppose we should have learned to be good in bed by like… reading about it? Definitely not by watching porn because that probably also makes us slutty.
Talk of numbers, especially in the context of “too high” makes me eye roll so hard I’m not sure I’ll ever see straight again. If a dude thinks my number is too high, his loss.