Yes! This x 1000. I’m actually working on another piece about why strong women enjoy D/s dynamics (aka why I do).

I hate the trope that people who participate n kink are damaged. I mean, we’re all damaged in one way or another, but that doesn’t mean it’s an unhealthy pastime.

Topping does have a super different energy, the one time I really topped and experienced top drop it was sooooo different from the sub drop I knew how to expect/deal with that it threw me for a big loop.

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